There Are No Such Things As Monsters

Another train journey and another blog for all you sleep lovers out there.

Today’s topic? Monsters. Monsters under the bed. Monsters in the wardrobe. Monster behind the curtains.

For many kids the fear of monsters is real. As parents many of us deal with this problem by making monster Ray guns out of washing up bottles to kill them. Or check the bedroom for monsters. Or tell them that this magic pillow protects you from monsters.

The problem with this is that it is saying

“monsters are real. But it is ok your bedroom is a monster free zone”

This means the fear doesn’t go it is just soothed.

The best thing to do I hear you ask. Tell your little one monster are not real. Because they are not. Hopefully a couple of weeks of this response and monsters will disappear from their thoughts.

Sleep Well,

The Sleep Geek

All Night Long-Night Lights and Light Sources

Most parents have done it, crept into their little one’s room and turned off the night light; just in case it wakes them up. It makes sense right? It does, but changing your little one’s sleep environment so significantly can lead to them waking in the middle of the night, scared and confused!!

Think about it, they go to sleep in a room lit by a dull warm glow and wake in the pitch black struggling to make out the shapes of their room. Rather than drifting off back to sleep they let you know things have changed, normally quite vocally!!

In the work I do with The Children’s Sleep Charity we find this simple measure can help kids sleep better. This also applies to any toys or sleep aids that use light (or sound) to soothe you Little One to sleep. If they can’t stay on all night think whether they are suitable in the bedroom!

So remember as Lionel Ritchie said leave the Night Light on “All Night Long”

Sleep Well,

The Sleep Geek

3 Easy Ways To Make Your Sleep Better

Hello to those who are looking for the answer to their sleep problems.Here is a short blog with some quick and easy things you can do to help you sleep better.

1. Eat Breakfast

Doing this within 30 minutes of waking up ensures that your body gets enough energy to kick start your day. A failure to eat breakfast (and we often see this in those who struggle to get to sleep) means your body will begin to crave sugar and caffeine to give it an energy boost and this will mean that you begin a cycle of ups and downs in your energy levels leaving you chasing caffeine and sugar all day. Dr Neerina Ramlakhan, the author of Tired but Wired (a great book, I would recommend anyone interested in sleep issues to read it) says this about breakfast

“There are these fallacies swirling around that not eating before bed, or not eating lettuce or tuna, can help you sleep,” says Ramlakhan. “But it’s more crucial that you eat breakfast first thing in the morning, in what I call a ‘metabolic window’. It’s a timeframe in which you can give your body an important message. It tells it that in your world there is an adequate supply of food, it can relax, and that it can fall into sleep mode when it needs to.”

Remember when you are having breakfast try and steer clear of cereals that are full of sugar!

2. Don’t Exercise Too Close To Bedtime

This one is quite apt as many of us are charging back to the gym to burn off the pounds we have added over Christmas! Due to the pressures of life many of us work out late into the evening, especially since the advent of 24 hour gyms such as Pure Gym. This means many of us come home late from exercising feeling pretty tired and go straight to bed. You may then find that the sleep you get is pretty bad, with lots of tossing and turning. If you do this you haven’t given your body enough time to wind down, to prepare itself to sleep and to release Melatonin, the hormone that helps your body sleep.

My advice would be to give yourself 2-3 hours after exercise to wind down. You can help this process by doing something that relaxes you; maybe read a book, (nothing too exciting though!) listen to the radio or watch a comedy programme. You can help the production of Melatonin by having a food rich in Tryptophan, such as a banana as you finish exercising. Tryptophan is an amino acid that is a precursor to Serotonin which help in the production of Melatonin.

Follow this advice and you will sleep better after exercise, which will mean you will recover better. This is because the quality of your deep sleep will improve and this is the sleep stage your muscles repair themselves during sleep.

3. Put Down The Phone! Or The Tablet!

When people talk to me about their sleep issues smartphones and tablets usually comes up. They are bad for two reasons. Firstly when you are on social media or playing a game your brain is in work mode. This means it needs a wind down period before you go to sleep, to allow it to switch off and realise it is time for shut eye.

In addition to this smartphones and tablets emit blue light as do TV’s and other light emitting devices. The issue with smartphones and tablets is that the light source is so close to the eye, ensuring the affects are far greater than from a TV for example. For more info on this have a look at this research here from

To minimise the affects blue light has on you why not try the nifty Twilight App if you have an Android device o f.lux for Apple Devices and PC’s. These reduce your exposure to blue light.

Give these three tips a try and I am sure you will see an improvement in your sleep.

Sleep Well

The Sleep Geek

I’m Back!!

Hello, I am back!!! What with it being a New Year I have decided to reignite this blog, and will be commenting on all things sleep as often as I can. There will be advice and tips on how to sleep well, on how to buy the right product for your sleep issues, on sleep stories in the news and updates on the exciting projects I am involved in. Here is hoping to sweet dreams in 2015

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Someone sleeping well. Which is what I will help you to do!


Sheffield College and Sleep

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Me: I Love Talking About Sleep

As you probably realise, I love talking about sleep. I will go near and far for an audience who are willing to listen for a while to me give me thoughts and advice on how to sleep better. My latest audience were the Students at Sheffield College, or more specifically those at the Hillsborough and Norton Campuses. The main aim of my talk was to highlight the importance of sleep to them and how a healthy sleep routine can give you a real advantage when it comes to exam time. They got really involved and it was interesting how many of them actually, suffered form Sleep Problems. There is this perception that teenagers are lazy and spend all their time in bed. In their defence they do need more sleep than us, and with their hormones, coursework and in many cases jobs they have very stressed lives. So the next time a teenager complains about being tired, show them some understanding, and point them in my direction. I think Sheffield College should be applauded for taking the sleep of their students seriously as getting sleep onto the National Curriculum in the UK is a personal crusade of mine.
We were lucky enough to have lots of media interest and both Look North and the Sheffield Star have videoed the talks. (I amy even get them up on Youtube if I ever work out how to make the video a smaller file size!) It is brilliant that the media take notice of these type of events, the more I can get in the media and help people to see the importance of sleep the quicker Britain will be sleeping better.
For some tips about sleep and revision please see my blog post from last May here

Sleeping Separately-Why Not Try And Solve The Problem?

So the second part of my thoughts on the article in the Daily Mail. I have a real issue with the idea that sleeping separately is the super cure for sleep problems. It seems to be a popular topic amongst journalists and I know it is something that Dr. Stanley advocates on a regular basis. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with sleeping separately if that is what you want to do (remember, and I know I say this a LOT, but we are all individuals) and you have the spac

Sleeping Together

See, this picture proves my theory to be true. They obviously Love sleeping together!

e for both partners to have your own bedrooms, but don’t feel it is your only choice. You could always try solving the problem; for example if one of you is a snorer get some good advice from someone who knows what they are talking about (such as me), work out what kind of snoring you suffer from and try some of the snoring solutions that are available. Whatever the sleep problem is that is preventing both of you from sleeping soundly there will be something that could be done, you could start by making an appointment at our Sleep Centre

My feelings also come from the fact that from my experience a sense of security is one of the must-haves to get a good night’s sleep and for many of us that sense of security comes from our partner being in bed with us. I know that when my partner Katie is not there I sleep much worse and the sleep I get is of poorer quality. We evolved as an animal sleeping in groups (when we lived in caves we slept together for warmth and security) and therefore we are on the most part genetically programmed to keep those we love close to us. I must stress that I am not saying you must sleep together, if you are both happy with it then to coin a phrase, fill your boots! But if you sleep better together and want too then don’t let newspaper articles and sleep experts put you off.

Sweet Dreams zzzzzz

When It Comes To Mattreses Men and Women Are Not That Different

Anti Dust Mite MattressOh my! I know what you are thinking, 2 blogs in a week, you are on fire Mr Sleep Geek. And I am. And in total there will be 3 blogs, a definite twit twoo for that.

Anyway on to the matter in hand, and surprisingly enough I am going to be talking about sleep. More specifically a little snippet in the Daily Mail yesterday that makes very general and sweeping claims about what kind of mattresses the different sexes prefer. You can read the snippet Here but what it is basically says (it is a very short article) that sharing a bed can disturb sleep and that because of their different body shapes women need a softer mattress while men need a firmer one. The article quotes Dr. Neil Stanley as the person who is putting forward this piece of advice. Now I know Dr. Stanley and I am surprised he has come up with such a prescriptive one size fits all piece of advice on this. I am pretty sure Dr. Stanley has a similar view to me that we are all individuals and when it comes to sleep there isn’t a one size fits all solution.

On this basis I talked to a friend of mine who is a Physiologist and he felt the stereotyping all men’s bodies as being similar and all women’s bodies being similar is just plain wrong. My friend stated that men and women marathon runners will have body shapes that are similar and obese men and women will have more in common with each other that the marathon runners of the same sex. Dr. Stanley sure knows his stuff when it comes to sleep but I am not certain he is the best person to be commenting on the right mattress types for us. My advice is to try your mattress before buying it and do not go in with pre conceived ideas of what you think you need. The mattress should ensure that your spine is straight, that the heavier parts of your body are supported right and that you feel comfortable. I know people who just cannot stick a firm mattress while others feel a soft one is just not right for them. As long as you are supported don’t let ANYONE tell you what mattress you should be buying!

The Hand Test

A good tip whe trying mattreses is to use the Hand Test. Lay on your back or side, whichever you sleep on and try and get your flat hand between your body and the mattress. On your back do it at the bottom of your back and on your side do it at your hip. If it is difficult to get your hand in then the mattress is supporting you well. If your hand slips in easily then the mattress is not supporting you well enough.

Now move on to part 2 for my thoughts on Sleeping separately